Behind the Paddle
Welcome to "Behind the Paddle", the podcast that explores the fascinating world of sex across a wide spectrum of topics; from LGBTQ+ and feminine power, to kink, sex work and the adult industry. We aim to inform, inspire and entertain, featuring expert interviews, compelling stories, and thought provoking discussions.
Join Porcelain Victoria (a very experienced Pro-Dominatrix of 9yrs) on a funny and wonderfully truthful look at the world through the lens of a BDSM practitioner working in the sex industry.
She will also be answering listeners questions about real-life queries which will be discussed on the podcast. These can be sent in via email or through any
socials.
Email: behindthepaddlepodcast(at)gmail.com
Our socials: https://allmylinks.com/behindthepaddle
Episodes
138 episodes
E88: How to be you part 4
What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence.<...
E87:Crayons, Contracts, and Care: Inside the World of DDLG and Caregiver/Little Dynamics
Behindthepaddle Podcast invites you inside one of the most tender, misunderstood, and intimate corners of the BDSM world: Caregiver/little dynamics.We explore the acronyms (DDLG, CGL, MDLB, Littles, Middles, Brats), the <...
E86: How to be you part 3
What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence.<...
E85:Kink vs Fetish
In this episode, I dive into one of the questions I hear all the time: what’s the difference between a kink and a fetish? These two words get thrown around a lot, but they aren’t the same thing and understanding the difference can change how we...
E84:How to be you part 2
Hello welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast, what happens when your brain constantly pulls you in opposite directions? When one part craves structure while another needs novelty, or when one side thrives on patterns while another demands constant ...
E83: Beyond The Dungeon: Exploring SSC, RACK & PRICK in BDSM
Welcome to Behind the Paddle podcast. Today we are speaking about BDSM not as a hobby, not as a kink to be giggled at behind closed doors, and not as a fleeting curiosity but as a world. A world of power, of discipline, of trust. A world of ...
E82:How to be you part 1
Hello welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast, what happens when your brain constantly pulls you in opposite directions? When one part craves structure while another needs novelty, or when one side thrives on patterns while another demands constant ...
E81: How It all began- How i become a whoreified deviant
Hello and welcome back to Behind the paddle podcast in todays episode I share my deeply personal journey into sex work, from discovering sexuality through late-night TV at 12 to performing webcam shows as a teen and entering in-person work at 1...
E80:Revolting Prostitutes p22 Finale
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 215-221 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical ...
E79: I was Charged with Brothel Keeping part 2 Brothel keeping laws
In this raw and urgent episode of Behindthepaddle, host Porcelain Victoria breaks her silence after being charged under Scotland’s archaic brothel-keeping laws—laws that criminalize sex workers for simply trying to work together in safety.<...
E78:Revolting Prostitutes p21
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 204-215 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical ...
E77: I was charged with Brothel Keeping Part 1 My Story
One knock on the door changed everything. Twenty police officers with a battering ram stood ready to break down my door – all because I, a dominatrix, had created a safe workspace with security measures and safety equipment.Safety shoul...
E76: Tethered Hearts: The Sacred Art of Aftercare in BDSM
Welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast with me, Porcelain Victoria. In this deeply personal and richly detailed episode, we unravel the sacred, often overlooked practice of aftercare in BDSM. Beyond cuddles and comfort, aftercare is a ne...
E75:Revolting Prostitutes p20
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 193-203 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical ...
E74: Rope Bondage with Miss Fay Morgan Part 2
Welcome to BehindthePaddle Podcast in today’s episode we will be speaking to the amazing Miss Fay Morgan. Rope bondage transcends the physical act of tying knots, creating a profound psychological landscape where vulnerability, surr...
E73:Revolting Prostitutes p19
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 182-192 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical ...
E72: Rope Bondage with Miss Fay Morgan Part 1
In this deeply textured episode of Behindthepaddle, Porcelain Victoria is joined by the enigmatic and skilled rope practitioner @MissFayMorgan whose eight years of experience in shibari and rope bondage span teaching, performance, and profound ...
E71:Revolting Prostitutes p18
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 172-182 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical ...
E70:The Sexy Side of Healing: Virgin Island's Somatica Method Explained
In this provocative episode of Behindthepaddle podcast we explore kink, shame, and embodied consent, I sit down with Celeste Hirschman and Dr. Danielle Harel, co-founders of the Somatica Institute and stars of Channel 4's Virgin Island, to unco...
E69:Revolting Prostitutes p17
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 162-172 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical ...
E68:Cups, Confidence, and Change: Ending Period Poverty with the Menstrual Cup
Imagine a world where half the population regularly misses school, work, or risks their health due to a completely solvable problem. That's the reality of period poverty a crisis affecting 500 million menstruators worldwide every month....
E67:Revolting Prostitutes p16
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 151-162 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical ...
E66:The Hidden Intimacy of Phone Domination: Safety, Trust, and Digital Power
Welcome to BehindthePaddle podcast on this episode, The sultry voice on the other end of the phone line has been commanding submission long before webcams and instant messaging. From late-night hotline advertisements in the 1980s to today's dig...
E65:Revolting Prostitutes p15
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 141-151 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical ...
E64:Punishing the Wrong People: How Criminalizing Sex Work Hurts Trafficking Victims
Let’s start with the lie: that criminalizing sex work is done to protect the most vulnerable. That it helps victims. That it stops traffickers. That if you just lock up the pimps and fine the buyers, the violence disappears. But in reality, ...